Dating Argentine – tips, advices, stuff to know
Every country has its own differences and in terms of women they are very important. Dating a girl is sometimes the real workmanship which you have to improve all the time and dating Argentine girl is something unique, mysterious and remains some knowledge as it is surely very different than dating in your home country. It is especially important to know peculiarities of Argentine dating if the girl is important to you and you want to impress her so she agreed for the next date and become your partner, your girlfriend – novia.
As foreign man you have not only satisfy Argentine girl with all the belongings of real man, but also make her interested in you and here you can be inventive. I assume that one trick can help here. The thing is that Argentine men are extremely non-stop talkers, they talk everywhere about everything to some annoying extent. You have to do the opposite way – rather show who you are with your actions, by your actions prove you are the man and Argentine girl will be intrigued by such man’s behavior which is something new for her.
Tip number one to date Argentine woman – learn Spanish. Here they talk special Argentine Spanish or sometimes non-literary forms of who knows what but you have to understand and speak at least a little. English is a bad option. No Spanish – no communication, no successful date and you fail. There could be exceptions, but they are rare, so learn the language of the country which you are going to visit. Read also: Marriage with Argentine woman – suitable not for every man
Argentine men like to tell many nice words to all the women around – their girl friends and random passers-by; they also make lots of different compliments to their women. Here you have to keep up and take Argentina men as your competitors. Every woman likes compliments even if she knows they are made on purpose, are not true or something. Argentine girls used to the fact they are swimming in the sea of compliments every day and take it as normal fact of their life and if you will not make your Argentine lady compliments she would think you are too cold and the next date is under a doubt; even the fact that you belong to another culture doesn’t counts – women are women and there is nothing to do with it.
Remember Argentines are very proud of their culture and their history and due to this fact you have to agree with all the points of your Argentine girlfriend on politics of her country, history, courage and so on, and if you not – there is high chance the first date with Argentine girl is the last one. At least when it is going about the same girl.
Argentine girls are very emotional and my assumption it is because they are posterity of Italians and Spaniards. Argentine girls like to quarrel about anything and all at once, they like to argue and shout and sometimes the reason is hard to identify or what is more – there is no reason, she is just in the mood. You have to take it or leave because that could be happening pretty often. It is just such type of temperament. Just don’t take it seriously because she will cool down in a few minutes.
Dating with Argentine means to get to know her family. Argentine family relations and lifestyle are very different from American or European. Girl or man are closely related to their parents, family and close relatives. Usually those are huge families where all the members meet on Sunday for grill. It is not that it is compulsory – they really enjoy it and for you as the foreigner it might be hard to understand it sometimes when your girlfriend is not going to spend Sunday with you, but prefers to visit her family. By the way, talking about the family… you have to know that usually Argentines live together with parents until they get married, so if you had a few successful dates with Argentine girl and it is a high time to bring your relations to different level you will have to think about the place where to make this serious change of relations. The best option is small hour rent rooms which are full of them almost in every district. As you see, Argentina has already made one step easier for you, but the rest could not be easy at all.
Argentine is the country where poor, middle class and rich people are separated and almost never cross in everyday life; they even live in different city districts. Depending to which type of social strata your Argentine girlfriend belongs requires different approach and sometimes might be even dangerous if your girlfriend is from poor districts and lives in favelas ghetto where even police afraid to get into at any time because of the risk of being gun shot.
Dating Argentine girl is dream of many American men and especially many Australians are looking for such dating experience and the main reason is beauty of Argentine women, their exotic mix of European and South American, Latin temperament. Many admire Argentine women and although it is hard to conquer Argentine girl’s heart many men from all over the world are trying because it worth so. First date with Argentine girl would help you to feel unique feelings, memorable experience and inner understanding is it for you to date with Argentine girl or not.
And one important thing about Argentine punctuality… There is no such term at all because being late is the norm of society in Argentina. If your girl is late for a date for 2 or 3 hours it is normal here. By the way, people go to bed late in Argentina and because of that they plan dates late as well – about midnight is just ok. So, don’t be confused when you are going to wait for long for in the Buenos Aires pizzeria waiting for her to come – she will and what is more important – don’t get offended as it is normal feature in their culture – to be late. Don’t take it personal and enjoy this so different experience. Read also: Typical Argentine woman